Japan business culture & etiquette: Why you must bring business cards
Ten days ago, I traveled to Tokyo to help Business Insider launch
its latest international edition.
Unsurprisingly, I was asked to meet lots of important Japanese
businesspeople, journalists, and advertisers.
Each interaction went something like this:
- Someone introduces us.
- We bow, exchange names, and, if the Japanese person offers,
we shake hands.
- The Japanese person takes out a meticulously crafted business
card and holds it out with both hands. I take the card, study it
with interest, and then begin to apologize. I have no business
card to give them.
- I take out a pen and paper and begin to furiously scribble
down my phone number, email address, name, and company position.
This interaction has played out again and again throughout my
time in Japan. And although I apologize, I am undoubtedly
committing a major Japanese faux-pas.
Japan is, at its core, a country of rituals, respect, and
etiquette. Whenever Japanese people meet for the first time,
particularly in a business setting, they present business cards
in a custom known as meishi koukan (名刺交換).
While exchanging business cards isn’t unusual in the US, no
relationships will be jeopardized if you fail to bring them.
Smartphones have all but made business cards obsolete for
millennials. Hence, why I failed to bring them. I had business
cards printed once when I was looking for a job after graduating
college. In the intervening years, I’ve defaulted to directing
new contacts to my LinkedIn or Facebook profiles. No one is ever
In Japan, it is quite the opposite. The meishi koukan is
considered to be a formal introduction to the person. No business
can begin until cards are exchanged because the exchange itself
indicates the beginning of a relationship.
The rules of the exchange are of equal importance, if you don’t
want to offend your new acquaintance. According to Michael
Gakuran, a writer for Gaijinpot, a
website for foreigners (gaijin) in Japan:
1. The highest ranking person gives out business cards first.
2. Cards must be given and received with two hands
3. Cards should be handed face-down to the receiver.
4. Cards should be kept on display for the remainder of the
5. Cards should be kept as immaculate as possible.
The last two are possibly the most important. Business cards are
considered an extension of the person you are meeting. Poorly
kept cards indicate either a poorly kept person or a lack of
respect to the person you are presenting the card to.
Even worse, if you shove the newly received card into a
pocket or handle it roughly, it also indicates a lack of respect.
While Japanese people are more forgiving of these faux-pas to
gaijin, I have no doubt that foreigners have ruined
entire business deals with a careless meishi
The exchange is so important that,
at the Business Insider Japan launch party, attendees arrived
early but refused to enter the ballroom where the party was to
take place. As Shigeru
Sato, Business Insider Japan’s senior editor, explained to
me, it is customary for attendees to wait until all of the people
they wish to meet have arrived before entering so that they may
exchange cards and introduce themselves respectfully.
Here was the scene outside the party when I arrived:
Hints at the source of the exchange’s importance can be found in
the characters found in the Japanese word for business card —
“meishi” — which literally means “point at the name,” according
to David Willoughby,
a writer for Tokyo Art Beat, a blog about Tokyo’s art scene.
“If the Western business card is something meant for future
reference, the Japanese meishi is a way of smoothing
communication by revealing one’s true status,” Willoughby wrote
The business card is an indication of one’s social and business
standing and hence the level of respect you command. As
Dr. Deborah Swallow, who has written numerous books on cultural
communication, put it on her blog, “If you do not have [a
business card in Japan], this implies you are of no consequence;
you don’t exist.”
I never thought forgetting something I so rarely use in the US
would be of such consequence to my trip.